I'm a little lost

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I'm engaged to this great guy. We have been together for 2 1/2 years now. But lately I have been finding other men super attractive. I have a crush on three different guys not including my fiancé. I desperately want to express my feelings toward them but I obviously can't. I am really struggling and I don't know what to do.


My advise would be stop seeing these other men if possible, and spend more time with your fiancé.


If you want to date other guys then you should not be engaged.

It's okay to think someone is cute but you should not act on that because you are engaged to someone else.

I suggest you break off the engagement until you decide you are ready to be serious with that person.

How old are you anyway? You sound kinda young, no offense.

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I'm 22 my fiancé is 25. I work with this guy that I find so attractive. I can't stop thinking about him.


What would you want your fiancé to do if he had a crush on his coworker?


I don’t know what your relationship with your fiancé is like, but if you think this is more than a phase you can consider talking to him about it. Maybe to be honest with him and let him know you want to work more on your relationship, or maybe even a flexible relationship where you decide together on if you can flirt with/ see other people while keeping your relationship primary. You’re in charge of your relationship, don’t let it run away on you :)