Can't Orgasm


So this may be a little awkward, but I can't orgasm. Like at all. Like I'll get really really close and I'll almost be there and then I'll just loose it. I have never orgasmed before and I don't know. It sucks. I masturbate and have sex with my boyfriend and we have tried so many different things but nothing works. So does anyone know if there's some sort of disease that causes this? Or any other ideas as to why my body is like this?


Probably it's the way u have sex...


I’m the same, it’s like I’m almost going to orgasm but I can’t just push over the edge if that makes sense. I’m not sure what causes this but I have found that if my mind is not completely clear then I can’t orgasm or get even close. I though about buy a vibrator to see if that helps


Yeah. I just can't orgasm at all though. We have tried many different things and nothing works


I used to have that problem until I realized it was all in my head! You are probably worrying so much about it that your body just shuts down. You have to get your mind to a comfortable, no pressure place.


Oh and for best results you should spend time on yourself. Just take some time and figure out how your body works. Then you can try with your BF. You have to learn how to walk before you can run


lay in the bath with your punani directly under the tap faucet and put the pressure up make sure water no to hot. Increase the pressure and you'll literally be shaking make sure water hits ur clit it's the best orgasm ever might have to lower pressure but if it gets to intense xoxo


Try relaxing in a warm bath and touching/playing with your boobs- then if you have an orgasm try to finger your self


Try putting the shower head on your clit


Keep in mind it might not just be physical. There can be emotional and psychological things that make it hard to let go and orgasm.

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I have the same problem too I’ve tried all I can still no way. I’m in a good relationship with my man and I really love him but I don’t know what to do about it. Please an advise will really help thanks.